Monday, September 15, 2008
September Slump
How do you know if you too are experiencing the September Slump?
You know you're in a September Slump when:
5) You spent the last week night fine-tuning your DVR/TiVo selections
4) Games of choice include: name your hurricane and how low can the Dow go?
3) You keep walking by your bank to make sure it still exists
2) Even Back To School sales aren't enough to lure you back into stores
1) Making fun of Sarah Palin just isn't that fun anymore**
So, as I try to get through my own September Slump, let me offer up a handful of suggestions/thoughts to get through these trying times:
1) Remind yourself that bad politics=great comedy (aka Bill Maher, SNL, The Daily Show etc)
2) Get out your monopoly money- it might finally be worth something!
3) Climate change at this rate means snow days are just around the corner
4) Although loyalty in men is not innate, it can be taught! So, girls, you better reconsider the teaching profession (See more here: http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-he-mating15-2008sep15,0,5766094.story?page=2)
5) Flip flopping is endlessly entertaining so we can always return to making fun of Sarah Palin!
* Okay, maybe just New Yorkers but it's way more fun to exaggerate
** These indicators are valid only for September 2008 and are subject to change at a moment's notice
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Sticking to their Guns
Although the idea of "flip-flopping" was turned into political death during the last President election, I wonder why the idea of holding steadfast to your position no matter what is seen as the opposite- aka political perfection? I am not speaking here of actual flip-flopping which regardless of party is a routine practice. Rather, I am speaking of the common references at the convention to the "idea" that John McCain and Sarah Palin are virtuous leaders as evidenced by their solid commitment to one thing or another. On the face of it, I see why this sounds good- and at times, may even be a positive trait in our leaders. However, this almost sounds like "blind faith" in which one takes something as a given, regardless of facts. I am by no means suggesting that I think a good leader should constantly be changing their positions. However, reevaluating one's positions isn't inherently bad, is it? For me, the question would be why did someone reevaluate or even change positions? Is it because they learned new facts or is it because some lobbyist "paid" them off to change positions? These are two entirely different scenarios that would necessitate two very different reactions in my book. So, why then are we told over and over by the Republicans that sticking to one's position, regardless of popular opinion, is the character trait de jour? Is it merely because the subtle reference to flip flopping may sink Obama like it did Kerry? Or is it because Bush's approval rating is so low that one needs to suggest that going against popular opinion is actually a good thing?
I realize that no one is going to please all U.S. citizens all of the time- not even close. But must we choose instead to elect a President that by definition suggests that we are voting for him because he will stand against public opinion but stay firmly committed to it? This is even more ironic given the McCain-Palin firm belief in the INability for Government to actually improve the lives of citizens. So, if they don't listen to public opinion and they don't trust the Government, who do they trust? Only themselves? I certainly don't have the answers but I have lots more questions.
And in honor of Bill Maher, I leave you with this:
NEW RULE: If you claim to be pro-life, you must support stem cell research and oppose the killing of innocent civilians worldwide!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
RNC: The Regressive National Convention
Less than 1 hour into the RNC, images of the crumbling towers and references to September 11th are center stage ("Let's not forget George Bush has kept America safe" -Laura Bush). While September 11th is undoubtedly a day of siginificance to all Americans (and many across the world), it can not and should not be a political call to live in fear and govern through military might. Not only will this type of rule continue to drag us further and further behind the rest of the world, but it also doesn't work. According to a recent RAND corporation report, "the U.S. approach to countering al Qa'ida has focused far too much on the use of military force. Instead, policing and intelligence should be the backbone of U.S. efforts." They support this argument with DATA (I know, data can be SCARY, especially to those who believe in creationism and don't believe in global warming). Cory Doctorow describes the findings in the Boing Boing blog: "By analyzing a comprehensive roster of terrorist groups that existed worldwide between 1968 and 2006, the authors found that most groups ended because of operations carried out by local police or intelligence agencies or because they negotiated a settlement with their governments. Military force was rarely the primary reason a terrorist group ended . . . " And yet, Day 1 of RNC seemed to be an ode to the military and particularly the failed Iraq War. To me, Day 1 could be summed up something like this: religion, religion, religion, military, military, military, PAST, PAST, PAST!
I get it- we have a war hero presidential candidate and let's not forget that we are in the middle of a war. War hero+war=Elect McCain= put our country first! It amazes me that somehow war, and in particular the Iraq war (despite its waning popularity) still manages to garner so much positive attention and somehow equates to putting our country first. Even more shocking to me are military families and veterans, who have suffered continually from a lack of true support from the current Republican regime (unless you count repeated deployments and a lack of adequate health care for veterans as support), still seemingly enthusiastic about the Republican party and war in general (but admittedlly, I haven't actually looked at the statistics on this - YET). Shouldn't those the most likely to end up in harm's be the most war-phobic? Excuse the slight digression- now back to my original point . . .
I realize that Day 1 focused on the biography of John McCain and with 72 years of history, there is a helluva lot of "past" to discuss. I also am aware that during the DNC, we also took a brief tour into Obama and Michelle's past. But overwhelmingly, the sentiment at the DNC was excitement and encouragement for our future. And I have yet to hear anything forward-looking at the RNC. So, here's looking forward to hearing more from the Republicans in the days ahead. I only hope that that they too decide to look forward instead to continuing to dwell on the past.
And so, on to Day 2 . . .
P.S. Joe Lieberman seriously needs to stop calling himself a Democrat!!
Monday, September 1, 2008
What a Piece of Work is Man
- Shakespeare in the Park's performance of Hair: Absolutely worth getting up at 6AM on a Saturday morning! And yes, anyone that knows me knows that almost nothing is worth that kind of sacrifice. It looks like they have extended the run through September 14th- if you haven't already gone to see it, do whatever you can to get tickets. You won't be sorry!
- Lincoln Center out of Doors "Sounds of Africa" Performance with Extra Golden, The Ex, Mahmoud Ahmed and Getatchew Mekurya. See NY Times Review here.
- Public Farm One (P.F.1) Exhibit at P.S. 1 Contemporary Art Center
- Gorilla Repertory's Production of Hamlet at Fort Tryon Park/The Cloisters
Ah, but this is a bit of a diversion. Why am I speaking of mad men? Well, it is true that Hamlet is certainly a story of madness but this is not the story that I am referring to. Today's story centers on a friend of a friend's boob job!
So, I was hanging out with a friend yesterday and she was telling me that her friend recently got a boob job. Okay, this is by no means unusual or especially shocking. What is shocking is how she paid (or rather didn't pay) for her surgery. Apparently this girl could not afford the surgery but was extremely eager to find a way to enhance her otherwise great body (which she seems to have no problem flaunting on a semi-regular basis). So, she did what every smart person in trouble does- she reached out to her best friend - The Internet! I can't say I know the details of her internet research, but my guess is it didn't take too long before she found the charity of all charities - a place where flat chested girls everywhere (or future porn stars) can reach out to generous philanthropic souls and ask for pity, compassion, and yes, a boob job!! Apparently, while nonprofits struggle to find money to rebuild homes after hurricanes, feed hungry children during a famine, and provide life-saving drugs to those with H.I.V., girls everywhere can find a true way out of poverty, insecurity and most importantly, those loose fitting strapless dresses. I know that I feel much better knowing that this girl, and so many others, will never again have to struggle to choose between putting food on the table and inflating their lives and egos with silicone! Rest easy, dear friends, free boobs are here and here to stay!
Friday, August 29, 2008
The Curveball
To her credit, she apparently is known as a "whistleblower" who has focused much of her attention on ethical standards and standing up to corruption inside her own party. Certainly can't fault her there. On the other hand, her husband is an oil production operator on Alaska's North Slope and perhaps that's why she supports drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge. I'm waiiting to hear more on this one but so far the media seems to have stayed somewhat quiet about this one.
What's to make of all of this? Will the Republicans be able to lure away white women who were Hillary supporters and seemingly on the fence about Obama? Will the hint of youth, gender equality (or just soccer-mom), and ethical standards be enough to reenergize a party that only last night was considered near lifeless in this election? Despite the many attacks from both sides of the aisle on this V.P. pick, the Republicans are certainly doing something right- they have people talking about them and NOT Obama today. Just the mere shock of this pick has helped them gain momentum and media coverage. Admittedly, any V.P. pick would have garnered serious media attention on Day 1 but who knows how this will actually play with voters? Time to get back to the news. Tune in for more tomorrow.
For more on Sarah Palin, check out these links:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/sep/02/palin.johnmccain
http://tpmelectioncentral.talkingpointsmemo.com/2008/09/the_palin_meltdown_in_slomo.php
Notice, she hadn't even left the country before last year . . .
Thursday, August 28, 2008
A Sense of Common Purpose: A Future of Hope instead of Fear
Well, after tonight's speech, I'm not just jumping on the HOPE train, I'm leaping! Leaping for joy that is. Even Amy Holmes, a Republican strategist and CNN contributing reporter, said that Obama "turned the tables on McCain." Amazingly, he did this while still being genuinely respectful. I never understood before tonight how one could disagree with someone so passionately but act compassionately towards them.
But for me, the big selling point was the emphasis on both personal and shared responsibility. We can't do it alone nor can we rely on government to do everything for us. This reflects a genuine understanding of the complexity of the problems we face. Nobody can achieve success on their own, neither can a country. I'm more confident than ever that not only can Obama handle the challenges of being the next U.S. President but also that he can compel all Americans to take a hard look at what they can do to help bring about positive change.
Favorite quotes from Obama's acceptance speech:
- "On November 4, we must stand up and say: 'Eight is enough.'"
- "Now, I don't believe that Sen. McCain doesn't care what's going on in the lives of Americans. I just think he doesn't know. " (How could the man with 7 houses possibly know what's going on in the lives of most Americans? I think I'll take a chance on the man who only recently paid off his student loans, thank you very much!)
- "I don't know about you, but I'm not ready to take a 10 percent chance on change."
To read the full transcript of Barack Obama's acceptance speech, click here.
P.S. Apparently the political pundits don't think Obama was as respectful to John McCain as I did. Well, it was high time for the Democrats to finally bring on the fight so I'm not exactly complaining!To Obama's Speechwriters and Strategists
If this seems like an attack on the Republicans, it is not. I am thoroughly impressed by their ability to turn just about everything into something negative against the Democrats. Get with it, Democrats! If we are going to win, and we ARE going to win, then we better start getting good at this ourselves! Perhaps there are trainings being provided on negative campaigning being given by the Republicans- sign up now while the going is good!
Bill did step up last night to remind us that primary rhetoric is just that and indeed Obama is ready to be our Commander-in-Chief and much much more- leading us into the future instead of speeding up our decline (economically, politically, democratically and otherwise). But this is too little, too late, and clearly just put on for show, they say. I say, no problem. Why, you ask?
I have never been more impressed by the Clintons as I've been in the last two days. Don't get me wrong, I have my doubts about their sincerity too but I'm not sure that it matters. What does matter is that anyone who can follow the Kennedys and the Clintons and still inspire the crowds is definitely here to stay. And while I haven't seen or heard Obama's acceptance speech, I'm confident that he will be able to energize, inspire, and captivate all of us tonight! So, here's hoping that "readiness" questions are a thing of the past after tonight and we can get to the true matter at hand: making Obama the next President of the United States!
Monday, June 23, 2008
Karibu
After more than an hour and a half of little to no movement and crankiness turning into downright misery, we were informed that on Thursday the Kenya Government had decided to institute some new border control process that involved sticker visas (which although pretty seriously do not warrant the extra hours of standing in line!) and lots of manual processes- copying your info from one notebook to another and on and on (let us not forget that you need two pieces of papaer, one for your via and one for your entry declaration and apparently two forms is more than double the fun!) So on and on this goes until three hours later Ameena and I make it through. One would think we were overjoyed but after 3 hours on top of your 8 hour flights on top of your day in London on top of your 6 hour flight to London (which although oivernight does not constitute a real overnight) and well, we were more relieved than anything. But the apprehension remained as both Ameena and I had to recheck our bags in London after our first flights and had to ID them before they were loaded on the plane. So, while we were mildly confident in London's efficiency, (exhibited remarkably by their assembly line security screening where they first check your bad, than your person, and then your shoes-- okay, maybe not efficient at all but intriguing nonetheless), we were terrified that our bads either didn't make it or made it but after the three hours of waiting in line had managed to get lost, taken away, sent back to London and who knows what else. But miracle of miracles- our bags did indeed make it.
Then it was off to find Ben in the airport who I wasn't sure would have stuck around for 3 hours or really whether he was planning on coming at all (given the original 6AM arrival time etc). And so Ben was nowhere to be found but I quickly found a Hilton rep, said my quick goodbyes to Ameena and went off to the Hilton for a nice shower and some sleep.
I spent the morning trying to deal with getting Safaricom to work with a supposedly unlocked Blackberry before giving up and buying a new phone. I was too cranky to think or negotiate and decided it would be nice to get a real phone that works internationally and is not from the stone age. I was truly sold on the email feature which has yet to work. I think I need a data subscription or something. Will follow up on this later- suffice it to say that after hours or no sleep and no connection to the outside world, my decision making skills weren't in the best shape ever. Finally, after some real rest and with working phone, Ben and I managed to connect and meet up for dinner at Ranalo's- the yummy and affordable Kenya food jaunt. YUMMMMMMM. I was too busy sleeping all day to eat and was so happy to finally enjoy a real meal and catch up with Ben.
More on Ben, Kids for Tomorrow etc soon. For now, it's back to repacking for Lamu and then back to bed.
En route back to Kenya
Let us start with the question that has been on the back of my mind for the past few years: London- still brilliant? The answer is a definite yes but there are some caveats. For those who don't know me well, I shuld start off by saying that I lived in Lodon for about 6 months back in 1998 (my junior year at University). I studied at King's College London (Strand campus) and lived in Hampstead. My time in London was in a word lovely (as my british friends would say). I've been back a few times since but not in the last few years due to the pathetically weak dollar and the ever increasing worth of the pound. (Sidenote: Obama, please oh please let the dollar return to some semblance of its former self so that Americans may once again enjoy travel and its best counterpart, shopping in foreign lands). So back to London- I was a bit on edge when I went to the ticket counter in JFK and the Virgin Atlantic representative did not know that they flew to Nairobi. As he represents Virgin Atlantic, and thus Britain (to some degree)- I was seriously getting worried about the state of the British mind. It also didn't bode well that it took me an house to get through immigration at Heathrow. Despite the advancements in technology, they were still bottlenecked with only 4 immigration officials to process all non-UK passport holders! There is definitely some need for improvement here but at least the signage and the people in the airport were as helpful as one could hope for.
But alas, once in London, I was relived to find that they are still indeed brilliant. The tube is the seriously remarkable. I got from Heathrow into central London in maybe 40 minutes on the Picadilly line (no Heathrow Express needed). I not only could hear the name of every single stop we approach clearly over the speakers, but also any changes or helpful hints (like, if you need to go to terminal 5, please get out of this train and wait for the xxx train). I have gotten so used to the NYC Subway system (yes, I know-- it's bigger, it runs all night etc etc) that I had forgotten just how well an underground could work. The digital displays showing the time of the next train, the announcements that are actually understandable, and the famous mind the gap . .. should be added to the wonders of the world!
Once in central London, I sadly took myself to Starbucks for a caffeine infusion and even the Starbucks seems better in London. They have the best yogurt parfaits ever with yummy honey and granola but alas, no egg sadwiches. So, after caffeinating myself and reorienting myself (it's been while), I made it to Trafalgar Square where a huge Hare Krishna Festival had taken over. For reference, I think they are following me or I them because just last week I ended up in the middle of the Hare Krishna festival in NYC by Herald Square (where I rarely, if ever go-- had to return shoes to Macy's that I had bought online). I know my parents will laugh at this since they were convinced I would join the Hare Krishnas in College- well, it's not too late. It's like India coming overseas- kindof amazing. The beatiful saris, the chanting, the people with impossibly happy faces all around you- how can you not wonder?? With the little time I had, I managed to take myself away from the festival and check out Covent Garden, Leicester Square, the shops . . . oh the wonder wonderul shops, and the National Gallery. This brings me to my key point- while everything is seemingly outrageous in London, especially with the dollar so weak, the National Gallery, among other amazing things, is free! So, you don't have to feel badly just going in for an hour or less, strolling around and leaving. It brought back so many good memories from when I lived in Lodon and spent some part of almost every day there. Also, I'm pretty sure Pret a Manger is actually cheaper in London than in the States. So, surprisngly my day in London was cheaper than expected-- although I did have the do my requisite Boots Pharmacy shopping. I sadly had to walk away from a dress at Jigsaw. Fashion there is still so much better than in NYC but at those prices (with the exchange rate as it is now), indulging really wasn't an option. So, maybe it's a good thing I didn't spend the day in the airport as I probably would have spent more money at Heathrow and forgotten just how great London truly is. Hopefully, I'll get back soon!
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
The basic necessities- food, water, shelter . . .
Last night, Sam, Adam, Ben, Tom and I ventured out to go get some groceries in a nearby Nakumatt. The first two grocery stores/shopping centers were closed by the time we got there (at 7pm)- these stores normally stay open a bit later but had shut down a bit early for security reasons (we assume). More interesting was when we arrived at the 3rd store- there was a line wrapped around the entire store with people trying to stock up on essentials. Given the fact that the Shalom House (our current accommodation which also is a social enterprise organization supporting various nonprofits here in Nairobi) has two restaurants on-site, we decided to head back, eat dinner, and hope that we could venture back out to pick up some groceries today.
Tonight we plan to make a decision as to whether we are going to wait things out here or head to Zanzibar or somewhere else for a few days to see if things calm down. Will keep you posted.
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
TIA= This is Africa
Over the next few day, I will try to recap my last week here in Kenya but for now, I just wanted to write a few thoughts on the current situation in Kenya based on the latest election tensions. Over the last few days, there have been a handful of riots/killings around Kenya in reaction to Kibaki's declared victory over Raila despite evidence of voting irregularities. There has been a lot of concern that this will devolve into an ethnic conflict between the various tribes in Kenya (particularly the Kikuyu and the Luo). As our friend Tom reminded us once again tonight, over dinner, there are 42 tribes here in Kenya. It is unlikely for one tribe to pit themselves against another as there are too many tribes and they have lived peacefully together for many years.
With that said, there is the reality that many Luo and other ethnic groups were happy to see any non-Kikuyu tribe member rise up to be President.
To be continued